Thursday, September 6, 2012

Fibro friends....you need to get out....

This morning I woke to an overdrawn bank account. That used to make me cry. When I felt insecure financially I would panic and cry.

Now I know that having an overdrawn account is not a good thing. Times are difficult but I feel that we (as a family) and we as Fibro friends will get through them. 

I have a hard time "asking" my husband to take more money from his severance, but I did it right away without thinking. I always try to be strong and handle things on my own, but sometimes you need  a little help. You cannot be afraid to ask for it. 

He seemed a bit in a "down" mood this morning and was paying a bunch of bills. 

A friend of mind had invited me for coffee. I knew that if I stayed put in the house, I would feel the "mood" of my husband and worry too much. 

So, I went to my friend's house, in spite of needing groceries and in spite of needing to clean my house. 
I just did it. 

Sometimes friends, you need to get out of the house and treat yourself to something. Visit a friend, or an elderly person who is alone. There's no bigger pick me up than listening to someone else and NOT the voices in your head....which are telling you that things are "bad". 

That's the devil, trying to fool you. 

Things aren't bad. Don't let the devil win!

Get out and get a different viewpoint! It worked for me...it will definitely work for YOU! 

Well, I feel great about cleaning the house now!!

Until later.....

Blessings.......

Mo M. 

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